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我的人生经验也告诉我,
1) never, ever, assume you're better than someone else.
2) never, ever, try to be somebody other than yourself.
When I assume I'm better than somebody else, I'll be surprised.
When I try to be somebody other than myself, I'll be embarassed.
比如,如果有走上讲台,面对大家,我会尽量不去想“I'm looking stupid", or "are these guys judging me, since they are so competitive"...I'll just try to be myself, for I'm as stupid as I'm, and I'm also as smart as I'm.
I'm just who I am. If I'm at the podium to give a presentation, it's not because I'm better than anybody in anyway, whether that is the case is totally irrelevant. I'm at the podium because I've well prepared something to share with others, and they have the interest to talk about it, and they would benefit from it, and meanwhile I'll learn from them. Together we'll be a winning team.
Sometimes, I fall in the trap and try to be somebody other than myself, then I'm wasting my life and not living it to it fullness, it's a pity. |
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