Princess

hi msb,
I feel sorry for you. You are just looking for a date and you did nothing wrong. I read all the posts . No one knows you and no one has the right to judge that you are dishonest.
someone also talks about your position. As far as I see, what type job you has has nothing to do with whom you are.
Please, stop writing Chinese. It is not fair  writing Chinese to someone who could not read it at all. Please, be kind and don't judge others!
The one who posted in Chinese sounds such a snob.  It is not a matter what position he occupies.
People look for love and to have  great life together. No matter what his professional future holds, a man is a  great life partner if he is decent. It is a shame that some people sound such snobs.
everyone has right to date anyone he or she likes. It is none of others business.

doudou388

Ｐｒｉｎｃｅｓｓ妹妹，你说话是否在ｊｕｄｇｅ我的言论？我所说的也
是会看就看，不会看不强迫的，而且我说的是给各位中华姐妹作参考的。
对于工作啊，英文啊，也是一个参考数啊，说了这些就叫做ｓｎｏｂ？你
的思想面也够ｎａｉｖe的。在中国人堆里觅花寻柳还说人ｄｅｃｅｎｔ，
说说叫人不要上当就叫做ｓｎｏｂ。Ｔｈｉｎｋ　ｔｗｉｃｅ　ｂｅｆｏｒｅ　ｙｏｕ　ｗｒｉｔｅ，　ｂｅ　ｗｉｓｅ！
有这类人因为有这类市场，有志之士真要细思。

Princess

I was not judging you on what you said. You are entitled on your own opinions. Who the hell cares?
This French guy said that he is looking for seriouse relationship. why do some people assume he is looking for fun? Does any of you feel you are respected if you are not believed by others?  Everybody should be treated fairly and given equal chances.

downtown

The reason is quite simple. They are afraid that
handsome French guy will take away the heart of Chinese girls from this BBS.

Rythme

It is so sad that this unreal cyber world really makes some people suspect everything. I know msb as a true person with the true feeling. However, it seems that people like him are inopportune here.

Princess

Treat others the way you want to be treated!
Don't pick at his English! Most French can't speak English at all. I knew because I have been to France with my parents many times.
Most of westerns are just very simple people.
be open-minded and treat others kindly.  Be more civilized. If you want to be treated as whom you are, you would treate others as whom they are individually, not by their race nor group.

doudou388

> I was not judging you on what you said.

用你自己的手掌打自己罢。

>> The one who posted in Chinese sounds such a snob.
>> It is a shame that some people sound such snobs.

> You are entitled on your own opinions. Who the hell cares?

看来你最ｃａｒｅ。我向各位姐妹提醒几句，好像踏了你尾巴似的，
这么大反应，真smb.

看看自己写的句子，差不多全是imperative,你是谁啊？

> Treat others the way you want to be treated!
> Don't pick at his English!
> be open-minded and treat others kindly.
> Be more civilized.  

另一头大叫“No Chinglish",这头叫人 ”Don't pick at his English.“ 神是你，鬼又是你，识少少，扮代表，信你半句都有病。

Princess 这一类的bahavior好像就是typical的崇洋主义者，而且年
幼，读书不多。可悲。

大家都在找老婆，中国人的那些贴，只有数数几个跟贴，出了这个电脑
技工之后，这么多人支持，又说他是好人，又慰问，又祝福。真可笑。

msb

Dear friends,

If I use this bbs, it's because my colleague is a chinese man from Shanghai and he spoke to me about this bbs. He helped me to register here.

If I'm not serious,

I would not have stopped my relation with this Chinese which I met on this BBS, I would have waited to amuse me with her. However, as I could not then give him that which she needed immediately, I preferred to stop our relation with the whole beginning, before that does not become serious. You have seen, my son lives with me for several weeks. Because of my divorce, we were separate during more than three years. I had not disponibility that she wanted that I have for her.

Then, somebody who wants just to have fun would have done that? Or would it be to amuse with her and then he would have said to her goodbye?

Princess

we value youth.  
You values are different from American. If you want to live decently in America , you'd better to learn western culture and value.
You have been brain washed by the communists.
For a French, he can live here happily if he couldn't speak any English. For a Chinese, you can't find a job if you don't speak English nor French.
HI  French,  I just said things truthfully and honestly and some people don't tolerate me.   ．

Princess

This doudou3838, you don't deserve to be treated with respect. read your post again, you sound without any class and dignity.
When you meet some honst people, you will learn how to trust others.  I wish your parents will love you more and you will meet a man who cares and loves you, not a player!
why do you sound like you hate the world?
you are not entitled to judge me because my parents are from higher society and I guess you are not?