[联谊] looking for a good man

feifei3001 · 发表于 2003-3-31 14:43

Agre,
Thanks.I just have a good sleep. I was too tired last week and cannot sleep well because of my trouble. I decided to make my appeal but I cannot post it here because a friend told me: “Take good care not to practice your righteousness in front of men in order to be observed by them; otherwise you will have no reward with [God]”
Who are “we”, by the way?

Pair_of_Wing · 发表于 2003-3-31 19:22

feifei,

Be my GF, for 3 extreme important reasons, that is

i can take good care of u,
i can take good care of u & ur baby,
i can take good care of u & ur baby & ur familly

what do u day?

feifei3001 · 发表于 2003-3-31 19:59

Pair_of_Wing,
Thanks.

feifei3001 · 发表于 2003-4-1 00:29

"Maybe you have noticed people here in this bbs are almost those people who are sick on the boring life. what do you think to go out to some party, school meeting , conferences... you might know people face to face and judge sb. to evaluate if they would be good for you from their talking, behavior sth."--Expert

Expert,
You are probably right, but if we don’t have enough time or don’t want to waste time and money, what can we do?

Junior · 发表于 2003-4-1 00:46

Fei Fei, I can see that Expert is doing her best to help you. Whether her advice is practical or not to you is another matter.

I would recommend you to talk to your close friend(s) when you do not feel well, and get real help from them. - a personal opinion. Take or not, C'est ton choix.

feifei3001 · 发表于 2003-4-1 13:41

Junior,
I know Expert is trying to help me and he is very smart. That`s why I keep talking with him. I want to figure out a solution.
Actually,I am always happy and optimistic even when i am in trouble. But i still wonder what is a good man and how we can approach him?
In my first statement, i give one point of view about a good man, saying he should be a softhearted and reasonalbe man. What is the second, and third...?
I am looking forward to the reply from brothers and sisters here, i am listening to you.
Thanks a lot!
Feifei

try2003 · 发表于 2003-4-1 14:07

Hi, FeiFei

I agree with you. Sometimes, people say that women are too sensitive. But based on my experience, sometimes, men are also easy to be frustrated by the environment.

Here, most of us are struggling for something, there are always hardships on the road. Like some of my friends' families, I would rather to have someone accompanying me to face all the difficulties, than someone just complain everything at home.

It does not matter what he has now, the good attitude and faith will work it out finally.

Good luck to you.

feifei3001 · 发表于 2003-4-1 17:52

good point of view:
a good man shoud not be easily frustrated by...

Expert · 发表于 2003-4-1 18:07

hello feifei & Junoir,

thanks for your talking " i am smart ...nice..." first of all ( to junoir ) i am "he".

about girls, actually i wasn't success before. I have never tried to find a GF in past 5 years. but as i know, the important thing in seeking BF or GF is to find the suitable one to you rather that to find a perfect one. because everyboday is humanbeing, everyboday has shortages of him/herself.

Second, don't need talk too much, you should observe one's abilities, both in dealing with troubles and enjoying life. sex, as part of life, is important also.

Third, is the responsibilities to familly. everyone like James Bond, but you want marry him? he has girls everywhere.. or Jacky Chan?
forget about it.

above is my suggestions to boys and girls here.
take good care of yourself.

Expert · 发表于 2003-4-1 18:11

Expert,
You are probably right, but if we don’t have enough time or don’t want to waste time and money, what can we do?

Feifei,

you donot need too much time or money. just a cup of coffee or tea, and 1 hour spear time, you can talk with the TARGET somewhere and relax yourself at the same time...

want go out for a cup of coffee with me?