[联谊] French man from France looking for a chinese girl

m_w · 发表于 2002-10-31 12:20

msb, now i pull off ur mask, more and more real u r now. come on. show off more real character of u in front of us.
If u cannot keep ur calm, don't come back to our chinese community again. or wash ur brain first then come back.

ronado, u r wrong. yes, somebody have freedom to choose to be "bei jian", but u need to pay for it, that means in the real contact with people, u r "bei jian" also. there's no such an good deal, u r actually "bei jian", but others treat u as "gao shang". Here is the rule for freedom, you choose the way u live, then u get reward from it or pay for it.

m_w · 发表于 2002-10-31 12:34

we chinese are the self-displine people, though many people get lost in Canada ,on the other hand, also most of us keep our displine well. So, who wanna get into our community should learn to displine him/herself first. if not, we just treat him what he should be treated.

m_w · 发表于 2002-10-31 13:05

妹, 是你吗? 你玩得很开心嘛. :cool: 道理就是道理, 没规矩不能成方圆, 我们很多人已经走得很远了, 做人没一点准则.

msb · 发表于 2002-10-31 13:54

M_W

Afflicted for you, I am very clamp and your answer does not have any relationship with what I have write. If you have some things to reproach me, say it. If not, cease telling anything on me.

Princess · 发表于 2002-10-31 17:38

Hi French,
M_W is not lecturing you. She is talking to some body else. She said that everyone should treate you fairly. She is a friend. I hope you will have fun for your halloween.

姐，好想你，你好吗？我回家了，和我爸妈一起！明年一月，我去上学！大概是哥大！
你晚上去不去 party?

msb · 发表于 2002-10-31 17:43

Oups,

I'm sorry, like she dosen't write the name of the other person, I believed she spoke to me.

msb

m_w · 发表于 2002-10-31 18:13

yes, msb, i came here to saying something not only to u, but to our chinese people. ur topic is an open place to say something.

and good for u, u r getting close to our qualification. and u step to our cross now.
u r here: 123456
and we r here: 678910
the only cross is 6. if u don't understand my last post, u sure could not understand my this post.

what i want to tell our people is: we only have a little common with them. so, u lost a lot to get into another kind of life. u lost 78910 in ur life, u may get 12345, but if u have good memory, u should remembered you've got 12345 in ur childhood, it is only covered in a diffrent package.

m_w · 发表于 2002-10-31 18:51

妹, 我们两有话私下慢慢说, 我还是要教训他! 你回家了吗? 好事啊. 哥大不错啊, 好好读书.

m_w · 发表于 2002-10-31 18:57

妹, 我也好想你. 我很少去PARTY, 你呢, 常去吗?

bleu rose · 发表于 2002-10-31 19:43

This is my first time to visit this bbs, it sounds very interesting, I read all the posters, so I also want to express my opinions.

In this society, people changed a lot, more "realiste" especially for us chinese in western countries, We are suffering the culture conflict every day even we don't know how it enters into our blood, but we have courage to face it, the fact is that we are well educated and work hard in this ethical world, and we are pround of ourselves and our culture

To msb:could you give us the definition of the word you "serious", I can't understand what kind of relationship you want to keep.

To Ronado: I agree with your opinions, 骨子里是什么样的，都是无法改变，中西双方人的价值观是不同的，开始可能有一点新鲜感，可是时间长了呢，我本人在法国住过几年，看到的人也不少，好多女孩子为了换取一张拘留证随便找个法国人嫁了，也不管语言通不通，有的法国人很苛刻，每天连吃饭的钱都把的很紧，完全没有自由，当然这只是少数人。蒙城的中国人都很独立，成次也比较高，吃苦耐劳，力争上游，很给我们中国人争面子。
当然我不排除也有为了爱情而结婚的。最后的结果都是不怎么好，不是离婚就是婚姻不幸。我在这里并不是贬低法国人的不好，真正的原因在于文化背景不同，交流的不够，有时y也不是语言可以沟通的。当然法国人也有好多优点比如说本身生性浪漫，多情，讲究情调，例如我们这里的主人公。举个例子，我一位朋友说，她的老公从来不喝她做的粥，因为那即不是米饭也不是面包。多可笑的原因啊。

不知道这为他所说的女孩可不可以也站出来说一句话，你不在乎他是给有孩子的人吗，想过自己可能会当继母吗，如何处理你们的关系呢，人有时要务一点实，别被眼前的一切所迷惑，想一想吧，在这里我同意DOUDOU 的观点