落花流水

又瞎理解！打！呵呵~
落花也有情，流水也有意，流着流着没准方向就不对了，大家以为还能一起流，却发现已经相距太远了，这就是天意了。

dammy

落花流水,老猫大米就是俺DAMMY也，江湖人称猫行天下，又送外号浪里秤砣.

downtown

地球自西向东转，可有人偏偏看不准方向，喜欢做盲流，只是为了短暂的相聚。

落花流水

猫和秤砣可不是一回事啊？？？

噢，明白了，肯定是只懒猫胖猫，嘿嘿，对不？~

落花流水

盲流和相聚有关系吗？盲流是无家可归，相聚不成还能回家，看个人的愿望了。

Tekenn

Quebecbaby在挑选男人这件事情上似乎是个理想主义者. 她花了多年时间寻找自己的理想男人, 但是还没找到, 觉得痛苦和不解, "情郁于中, 而发于外", 结果有了她的这篇好文. 看来对理想男人的渴望, 有助于女性文学创作.

从某种角度来说, 理想主义者注定是要受折磨的. Quebecbaby似乎有些不敢继续耗时间去寻找和等待理想男人了. 呵呵, 时间是最强有力的.

从Quebecbaby找男人的案例来看, 理想和空想真的是只有一线之隔. 看来我要警醒了.

有一件事很奇怪: 女人最大的敌人是时间; 但是, 她们最常用的武器--等待, 却又是"时间"提供的; 时间对女人真是亦敌亦友, 矛盾啊!

ulysses

REAL idealists are 100% doomed in their pursuit
of dreams. Yes, 100%. Whether they realize it or
not, to them the pursuit itself is far more
important and meaningful than the end-results. I
dare not imagine what will happen when quebecbaby
finally finds the one. "Happily everafter"
unfortunately exists only in fairy tales.

On the other hand, what makes a real idealist
special is his/her very persistence. "Yi dai jian
kuan zhong bu hui". At this age of time it's
really touching to see them bravely holding on to
their believes and almost naiviely trying to make
the world a more meaningful place. Ok gotta go.

seriousplayer

keqi's first statement is 100% wrong and second statement is 100% right.
so get zero. do not angry.it is just my opinin. hehe.

To quebecbaby(your email has been replied sorry for late):

Girls should be approachable and lovely.

Tekenn's word is somehow not easy to take, but is right.

keqi

serious player:
You seem to be a judge, but we are not the players.
网上最近类似的贴子很多,也许秋天到了，人也变得思绪纷飞，就象那随凤飘落片片的枫叶。
我觉得社会经历对人是一种财富，但感情经历多了却未必是好事，会是你心灰意泠，顾影自怜，许多女孩感叹这里好男人太少，其实我想到国内她们可能也会这麽说。你自己就一定是个好女孩吗？我知道许多女孩在这里都很现实，看重外在的东西，反而失去了最宝贵的内涵，
天涯何处无芳草，好男人很多，好女人也很多..
My final statement about this.

jadis

幸福的人只有两种，一类是傻子，另一类是圣人。