if you really want her love you. Try to know what kind of man she love, be that man. Don't say, I love you , I love you so much, then you should love me. Nobody will love you ,just beacuse you love her. She love you since you are man she is looking for.
maybe I should type Chinese... My means he should improve himself, in some way. 如她喜欢的是完全不同类型的男孩,我劝你早早放弃.No chemistry. no matter you love her, she will not love you back. 但如只是部份不足,尚可努力.
同样我并不清楚她到地需要哪种类型的男朋友,---how could you make her love you if you don't know this?
但是我觉得如果为了这些去彻底改变自己,如果有必要的话,这样是不对的,所谓江山易改本性难移,即使现在去刻意改,那将来也是有矛盾的---if you need change yourself to another person, I said before...you 'd better give up. Improve yourself, not Change .understand!
To Wailingwall,
堂堂男子汉说话不要又是呀来,又是啦的,怎么听起来都象是个没长大的小男生。要想有真正的女朋友,首先要做一个男人,而不是一个小男生。当然有时一个好的女友会教你的,但现在既有这样见识,又有这种耐心的女孩子实在太少了。所以不能冀希于此,只能自我完善了。
再劝你一句,世界上好女孩很多,何必一棵树上吊死。更何况 男儿西北有神州,莫滴水西桥边泪。