尴尬的夫妻关系

helenzhang · 发表于 2001-9-6 00:33

别灰心，我始终相信会有真正的爱情，值得去付出全部感情！

helenzhang · 发表于 2001-9-12 23:33

分开了再见面，那种彼此的客气总让人很“怪怪的”，几次忍不住想笑，我怎么这样！

shasha · 发表于 2001-9-22 20:26

YaoYao 说得对，先别急着办离婚，在这儿再找一个就那么容易？(我认识这儿很多朋友，有未婚的，有离婚的，别说找理想的，就一般的也难。)即使找到一个，你也许会面对你第一次婚姻中同样的问题，也不可能十全十美。是的，你到了这儿，换了一个生活环境，国内国外是完全不同的两个生活环境，你的感受也是不同的。你在国内有你的亲人和知心朋友，你很容易得到爱，对他的优点，你很容易乎视。在国外没有了亲人和知心朋友，生活中遇到的困难和精神上的失落和寂寥远大于国内多少倍，那时你也许会发现他的优点远大于他的缺点，你们也许会在患难中走到一起。如果在患难中你仍然发现不了他的优点，到那时再离婚不迟。没有得到你想要的浪漫，你也有一半责任，浪漫不是只有他给你，你也可以创造浪漫，并且给他浪漫。

MrMontreal · 发表于 2001-9-23 22:20

WELCOME TO THE SINGLE CLUB OF GREATER MONTREAL!

There are an overflow of Singles in Montreal already,I believe the members are large enough to form a Canadian troop to AFGANISTAN, what do you Montrealers think?

Well let's get to the point: it's better both of you safely arrive and then separate for 1 year (not live at the same address) then apply for DV. As u don't have kids or millions dollars to fight, you'll be peacefully granted as SINGLES ---freedom of sleeping alone!

But do Watch Out for those opposite starving Single Montrealer who may offer you warm welcome help, for maybe you'll soon find out that you are not here to study Fine Arts but instead Arts of Love :?)

For further opinion, there will be charge .008 cents per sentence.

G**d Luck and G@@d Night!

yaoyao · 发表于 2001-9-24 00:40

shasha 嘻嘻英雄所见略同嘛... :cool: :cool: :cool:

曾看过安顿写的书(是北京的一个记者),当代中国人情感口述实录...我忘了是之几了,总之那一本书都是讲离婚的.很多人离婚后再找,其实也找不到满意的了...因为再怎样也不可能不受第一次婚姻的影响.即使是表面上幸福的,也是如此.应该是各地书店都有得卖的,helenzhang,建议你去买来看看...

vbreeze · 发表于 2001-9-24 08:51

从各位的发言，小女得出以下结论：
1、千万不要轻易结婚，结婚后大多只能凑合；
2、不要轻易离婚，因为那可能是恶性循环。

在国外找个伴会那么难？ :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
MrMontreal,我报名参加你的club吧... :p

yaoyao · 发表于 2001-9-24 13:18

vbreeze 结婚是需要慎重,但是也不代表婚后就都是凑和的...如果那样的话,那来过来干什么?肯定是有感情才在一起过下去的...这事我相信缘分.和你结婚的那个人,命中注定你们就是会走到一起的,不管是不是一辈子... :cool: :cool:

wang8 · 发表于 2001-9-24 15:22

To be, or not to be, that is the question,
Whether tis nobler in the minde to suffer
The slings and arrowes of outragious fortune,
Or to take Armes against a sea of troubles,
And by opposing, end them, to die to sleepe
No more, and by a sleepe, to say we end
The hart-ake, and the thousand naturall shocks
That flesh is heire to; tis a consumation
Deuoutly to be wisht to die to sleepe,
To sleepe, perchance to dreame, I there's the rub,
For in that sleepe of death what dreames may come
When we haue shuffled off this mortall coyle
Must giue vs pause, there's the respect
That makes calamitie of so long life:
For who would beare the whips and scornes of time,

MrMontreal · 发表于 2001-9-24 22:09

Hi, Wang /\

I like your quote of Hamlet from Shakespear's work.

To be or not to be
IT IS a question everyone should ask frequently in his /her life.

There got to be an solution! ;)

MrMontreal · 发表于 2001-9-24 22:29

Hi, Vbreeze

sorry, but
You are not qualified to be a member of the Greater Montreal Single's CLUB

To be a member you must have experience to love and to be loved AND must have also suffered heavily from love itself.

But you don't have to suffer if you break my heart -------
just joking, and such a Club is nonexisting,just a visualised image. Hope sb have the courage to build it.

TO BE OR NOT TO BE...it is still a ?

;)