feifei3001

Black man,
I know, thank you. I am just trying to make things easier and clearer. From your point of view, what should I do? Wait? I have been waiting too long.
Thanks anyway.

Expert,

“my favor of the main character of “007”—James band” does not mean his @ ability but other qualities. --Feifei

Expert

fei fei,

but i was wondering who is james band? is it the guy called james who playing music?

hkqi

I don't think you can make this things easier and clearer.That is not 1+1=2.In this case 1+1=0 or 3, maybe is what you want,sometimes is not what you want. So be patient to wait,that's your partial life. Enjoy it.

Good luck!

feifei3001

Expert,
haha...so you can know i don't know this guy very well. n'est-ce pas?
Black man,
Don't worry, I'm patient enough.

Expert

feifei,

good good, i donot know him either.

that's not important. but the thing i worried about is if people have to fight with this guy in order to chase you.

and because of the existence of this guy, people may wonder if you are still available any more.

feifei3001

Expert,
"and because of the existence of this guy, people may wonder if you are still available any more."--Expert

Well, I don't know if "James"could love me and would like to make a family with me because i don't know him very well and it couldnot be easy for him to make that decision now that he got so many girl friends (both in Canada and in China because he is so attractive,it's only natural)right? Moreover, i even don't know if he is available.
I am available of course, I am waiting for a good man. Whatever you are, whatever you have, as long as you believe you are a good man, please drop me a line. I am serious.

Pair_of_Wing

Feifei,

but how can others know if you will be the suitable one to them? where can one find your website? pics? your studying area? your personality? lots of things are not sure, how can one decides to chase you?

sounds fantastic.

feifei3001

P-O-W,
Good questions. So we need time. That's why I say every word as honestly as possible. My mother tell me that she is always successful because she has never done anything before she is 80% sure about them. I see your point that if I do want to do sth I have to try, but before I try, I want to think over it and be a little bit sure: it’s possible...it’s reasonable...
Maybe I cannot persuade you, so I tell you a story a friend tells me:
(大家看一看笑一笑就好了，可千萬不要試)

我不清楚台灣的燈泡是不是跟英國一樣。
在英國，燈泡的包裝紙上都有警告--do not put that object into your mouth.
意思是不要把燈泡放進口中。
...那有人會放這東西進口中？英國人都有些白痴...

告訴你，世事無絕對！
有天我和一個印度朋友在家中看電視，我和他談到這件事，
他告訴我他們小學的教科書也有說到，因燈泡放進口後便會卡住，無論如果都拿不出來，他十分肯定書是那麼說的...
但我十分懷疑，我認為燈泡的表面是十分滑的，如果可以放得進口, 證明口部足夠大讓其出入，理論上也可以拿出來。
但這印度白痴只說書是那麼說的...便一定是正確...
我被他這種不求什解的態度弄火了，我說他笨，
他說我不會英文不看書...我們便吵了起來...

我一肚火的回了家，拿起一個普通大小的燈泡在床上左想右想，始終認為我沒有錯，想到這印度朋友? 熊L知，
也本著科學家的精神-----大膽假設，小心求證。
我決定要證實他看。當然，我也做了安全措施...買了一枝菜油回家。
若卡土住了便放油，我就不信滑不出來！

一切就緒，二話不說便把燈泡放進口中...

不消1秒便滑入了口，倒也容易...照這樣看要拿出來絕無問題。
心想這印度白痴，看看我中國人的智慧和膽色吧！
不像你這書呆子...心想中國戰勝印度...打從心裏笑了出來...哈哈！

於是我輕鬆的拉了燈泡一下.........好！我放多點力 .........
o.k～我把口張大一些 .........
不怕，我把口張得最大，放多一點力（要很小心拉破燈）
.........媽的！...真的在內裏卡住了......好在還有枝菜油.........

（30 分鐘後）
我倒了3/4枝油，其中一半倒了進肚，那燈泡還是動也不動...
這時候，我只好打電話求救 .......................
正當我按到一半，我記起我口中塞了個燈泡...如何說話？

現在我只好向鄰居求助，我寫了一張便條後便去找鄰家那老婦。
她一見我便大呼救命...我立即給她看我的便條 ---
please call me a taxi and tell the driver to take me hospital.
（請招我一輛的士，還請告訴司機蛓我到醫院。）
她看了大約1.75分鐘後大聲狂笑...

15分鐘後，的士來了。
司機一見我，笑了一回（其實他一直沒有停過）。
在的士上不停的問我何以這麼做...（...我如何答他？）
還不停說我的口太小，如果是他的口便沒有問題...
我看看他的口真是很大...
但我好想告訴他，無論如何不要試...可惜我開不了口！
我看看他的倒後鏡，我好像含住一條金魚...

在醫院，我被護士罵了十多分鐘，說我浪費她們時間。
還要我排一條很長的龍...
我在人群中待了2.5小時...2.5小時...
那些痛楚萬分的傷者，看見我都好像不痛了...人人都偷偷笑出來...
我覺得自己還有些作用...

醫生把綿花放進我口的兩旁，然後把燈泡打碎...一片片的拿出來...
我的口腫得很大...最後他告訴我下回不要試，和告訴別人我的經驗...
我告訴他我一定不會了。

當我離開醫院時，我在想這地球一定沒有像我這麼白痴的生物了...
當我開門離開時，迎面來了一個人，是剛才那的士司機...
...
...
...

他口中含住一個燈泡..............................

laodao

feifei3001,
Good men can be found anywhere at any time even there is no perfect one.  The main issue I have to address is “ one’s delicious lunch maybe is another’s poison” for various reasons such as tastes or allergies.
Another main point to be mention is “ Don’t judge a book just by its cover”.  To well know a man likes to read a book, you need more time to read some important chapters. The negative consequence is you will find it wastes your valuable time, but the positive side is you will avoid making the same mistake twice.  
Based on your previous post, it seems “Colombia  Deneil and America Jimmy” passed by you so hurry that you had not time to judge them if they are so-called good men accordingly.  Believe or not, you lose someone and you will get someone else. Maybe there are other Denile or Jimmy of all nationalities around you.
I have a “3-P” theory, namely “Patience, Peace of mind and Propelling “, to share with you; it works well for both men and women. Patience and peace of mind can help you to tolerant others and adjust your ambitions or even greed (That’s a nature of human being). Propelling can drive you to reach your goal.
All in all, there really are good men nearby you.  
Good luck! Girl.

feifei3001

Laodao,
Wise! I must think over it…