Hi! Let me tell u this. Ur situation could be very dangerous if u could thinkseriously. U need to be responsible for ur daughter if not for uself. The man who abuses never stops until something serious happens.He treat u like an animal ( or as an object at best)deep in his mind. He has no ability to control himself actully. Abuse has become a habbit , a life style to him. I know a girl almost died of this kind of relation and finally got devorced. She is almost exactly the same as ur situation. Again, what i like to say that ur situation could be very dangerous.
Do not talk too much on this site. If u hv time , pls come to related sites to check related information about woman abuse. It would educate u that u r hopelss if u keep on with this life. U need to escape befor u r seriously hurted.
As to ur daughter, pls understand it is the only choice and the best choice under ur family situation. NEVER EVER EXPOSE UR CHILD TO VILOENCE!!! It will ruin her life. In Canada, it is very serious to expose kids to family abuse cuz it hurt the kid psyologically.U r hurting ur daughter actully.
I understand it is hard for u to change ur life, but u hv to. If not , pls leave him for the sake of ur daught.
Stop complaining and enjoying the pain. Believe or not , many women r experencing the same as u r, no matter how well educated she is and how beatiful or how high social stutus she is or she is white or chinese. Family abuse is nothing new. It is the all the same and universal . It is human nature of some men.But women seldom talk.
Hi, henri,
I know it's dangerious! my kid is so alert to any sign of quarrelling! Today, when i talked with my kid, she told me everyday when she got off the school bus she was wondering whether we were quarelling again. I was so sad when i heard of this. A family without safety is worth nothing to her. i will get rid of it as soon as possible!
can you tell me the related sites? Of course I will check on internet.
Hi! My suggestion is this: call police at least once when u r attacked again. This is very important to u if u really think of it : in case when u file devorce u will hv the right to hv ur daugher with u if police has his abuse history record. Court will not in favour of man with abuse history.In the other hand , once sth bad happens u will hv at least some evidence record favourable to u. U do not worried ,that does not mean he will be in jail for u can bail him out.
Also, warning is nessasary for him. If u already hv citzenship , just put him in jail. At least for 1 week. U will know it is good to protect u and ur daughter in the long run.
well, it is terrible that things like this happens!! I just watched the movie "Enough" a few weeks ago; it illustrates the same thing. The only way for the woman is fight back when she couldn't stand any more, although the ending is a little bit violent.
You Kuo Nan Yan. I understand your feeling, I have the same experience as yours. My husband hit me, not beat, just hit me two times. I hated him so much and wanted to share my pain with the Tongbao. But I was not so brave as you. It is a shame for a man to hit or beat his wife. But later I realized that I made him do so by saying dirty words at him expressing my resent. I understood his feeling. After negotiation, we became an ideal couple.
Calm down. The friends here have good intention. But they are outsiders, I think you can decide what to do.
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