聪明男人--Smart Man

梦中人 · 发表于 2003-4-7 21:36

人孤赏花红,
生气伴雪融，
几度芳心苦,
何处寻春风?

流氓 · 发表于 2003-4-7 21:58

啊 eek! 大米,
你还好啊...流氓真为你高兴...

今天流氓可被可怕的SARS差点吓晕

折腾的我到今天早上4点多  wink
当时,流氓感觉生命也许将不久已----特征,高烧41摄氏度  :mad:
但还没有咳唢等症状,

当时流氓的感悟是----珍惜生命,热爱生活!

流氓并不怕死,但想到自己的亲人会为我而痛苦,这是流氓最担心的...

今天,请假休息...以防传染别人

下午,去药店,买了个体温计,一测...36.7度,
又用原来的一测,40度,原来是体温计坏了.... :p

真是一场虚惊.... :p

gladgirl · 发表于 2003-4-7 23:14

faint....jadis...

紫竹叶叶 · 发表于 2003-4-8 00:57

Jadis:

你真的会桥牌？！我惊喜之外，感叹自己的“直感”居然能穿过大西洋“看”到了一个你，这大概就是人们所说的“第六感觉”吧。

文学是万千知识的基础，桥牌她集万千知识于一体--我对自己说：这个女孩她会玩桥牌，即使不会，也是可造就的。

我不想参与“聪明男人”专题讨论，我把“难得糊涂”贴在床头，每天鞭策自己：糊涂吧，糊涂吧，越糊涂越好。

pinner · 发表于 2003-4-8 13:12

hello guys...

To jugde a man is smart or not, people has different standard. A simple example is to the same person people may get different results from man and woman's point of views.

People in different calture, educational background, experience could have different value systems which is the base of his judgement.
People may not like Shanghainese for their selfish but they regard themselves smart for managing life.

In my opinon, the only method to distinguish  "smart" people, is by competition. To man, the meaning of compatition are obviouse. I want to point out an example on woman:
Why Japanese woman are so lovely? coz they know man, they are  worldly, amiable, urbane. compare with them, Chinese girl are not tidy, doing things without a good manner...I won't say more.

Smart man means good attitude to life, serious contributions to career, responsibilities to family. Smart man not try to do stupid things to please girls, that is a repect to smart man himself. A smart man can check themselves' behavior times a day and they know to be smart has nothing to do with how others look at you.

Smart man will stop here this post.  for it's better to do something rather than stay here signing all the time. Life is not easy for sure, we still need to at least make ourselves happy.

AHO · 发表于 2003-4-8 16:12

我是笨男人，MM快来找我啊。。。

AHO · 发表于 2003-4-8 16:16

认真地过好每一天吧，看那春花又放；桃树下多拍几张丽影，他日发疏齿缺时，回望那紫衣衫白裙裾的女郎，不知将是喜还是愁。

何必呢，人都不知道明天会是怎么样，想那么多岂不是自寻烦恼？

jadis · 发表于 2003-4-8 16:56

紫竹叶叶， wink

流氓，我回头追你好不好？

大米，你以前认识我么？ :rolleyes: 其实这是玩笑话，因为你所理解的我，是几年前的我，几年前年少不经事的我；或许也是现在的你的写照吧，所以JADIS应该是JJ噢。 wink 独自在外的几年生活经历，已让我懂得面对镜中的自己，以一颗谦卑的灵魂，勇敢地承认，我只是沧海一粟。

jadis · 发表于 2003-4-8 18:06

pinner:
Absolutely agree with you. The smart standard depends on the different persons.
是，聪明的人应该知道自己该做什么，然而聪明也往往被聪明误。近10年前，高中毕业的我为了前程，放弃最爱的中文，选学了热门专业；大学期间仍恋恋不肯舍其去，整天出入于校内外文学社，直到学业一塌糊涂，直到下定决心封笔...对中文的眷恋终於再次从心底泛滥而出，而你知道你是多么残忍，"for it's better to do something rather than stay here signing all the time", " we still need to at least make ourselves happy"，你拉开了我掩耳盗铃的手，我无法再欺骗自己，生活中还有太多事要做.
事实上，你是如此kind

,u r right, smart man will stop here this post. Best.

pinner · 发表于 2003-4-8 19:17

Jadis,

Thank you, actually I like what you posted here also, including those en francais. je comprends.. je parle tres peu le francais. You are very smart girl. 用时间在中文上是很值得的，在Montreal的这些年很少见到好的中文。中文报纸更是不象人话。真的希望看到你更多更好的文章。文学在于人的天份，一种美的素养。我并不觉得和专业的关系太大，所以你是Talent. 好了，我们不再互相吹捧了. Tomorrow we all have a big day, so long.