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Little more comment.
2005:
Oh, my God, it is such a big subject to talk about. It takes days to express my opinion about this. This subject will lead to talking about our Chinese( bin xin ) again deep down in the bones and the value system of our culture which has been molding Chinese as we have been...Let me try in a simpler way to express my ideas:
1. Chinese have been crippled (psychologically & physically as well comparing to
many other advanced nations))over the long histroy. They have been deprived
of the ability to think and to believe first of all. You say that they do not have
the ability to merge into this society, NOT because they miss money, it is really
because there is no course ( or reason ) for them to do so. They do not know
where to go, so why they should join the group to go anywhere? So Chinese
are just On-Lookers all the time from the history...
2. Again,To have a course to live for and fight for HAS NOTHING TO DO with being
rich or poor. You may think deep in your heart that these rich and important
people whom you know should merged better and do more for a course, but
what you see, as you have said, has disappointed you. What these people
have done is just Made-Quite-Some MONEY! It is very TRUE that if one has no
money, it is very difficult to acheive things, but NOT necessarily though. Here I
understand why you only saw what these rich and important people are doing,
because you take it very granted that poor & unimportant people can achieve
nothing, therefore you do not even mention them.
I'd like to let you know that you should not be disappointed by the
behaviours of these people. Being rich or important has REALLY nothing to do
with having a meaning to live for. You yourself have just helped me prove this
point by giving a very good example. N'est pas?
3. Having no interest to merge... I think most of us have lost the interest not only
for a course, but the ability to be a happy humanbeing! What they know
meaningful is probably MAKING-MONEY! Like you have mentioned in one of your
earlier messages( is it you? ) that one mother in Vancouver has been forcing
her daughter to get 90% in her studies....If you have less diplomas, you will
feel ashamed to lift up your eyes... My God! Jusus! What do these people
( mother )want? Yes I know what they want: to be Ren Shang Ren when their
kids grow up! I deeply believe that it is not their fault. The Kings and Queens in
the history, the one goverment always, the parents, etc, simple, the people in
power as mentioned above have been wanting to keep the power in their
hands!!!Let's stop talking about the type of govenment that has ruined
Chinese, look at how our parents have treated their kids and how we are
STILL treating our kids!!WHat all they wanted to do is the try their best to
keep the power in their hands and always wanting to have the respect from
those whom they govern. They do not win the respect, they just want it by
forming people into what they wanted you to be and manipulating people to
give always what they wanted. Don't try to fight on this point yet, hold on a
minute, just think what I said!
Chinese have been crippled and manipulated toooooo long, so long that they
have really and long lost the ability to be HAPPY humanbeings! They are so
unhappy and so worried back in China and STILL, they are so unhappy and so
worried even here. Maybe Chinese is a nation who can never be happy
anywhere!?
4. Another reason not to have interest to merge: unable to let go! To let go
what? To let go the suspect that everybody has in mind about other people
taking advantage of us! First, to be taken advantage is a good thing. It means
that we are useful. It is great that we can be useful. Let people take
advantage of us, we take advantage of other people as well. We take
advantage of each other in the society, n'est pas? What is the peoblem?BUT,
BUT, the stupid thing is: smart people who are rich in heart will share and they
will have more in the end, but the stupid people who have nothing already has
NOTHING but suspetion. We have to understand VERY WELL, suspetion is a
deadly killer. It kills all the possibilities in life? In the Bible, it says: for he who
has, he will have more, for he who doesn't have, what he has will be lost. I am
not preaching, but I understand what this phrase means as its gist.
5. Just look over the history, if we understand how the Chinese, our ancestors
have survived their pethetic little lives and how they have been educating their
generations after generations BASICALLY the same thing, then we understand
why they do not have interest to merge.
It is very sad to notice all the time that when Chinese are poor, they feel
ashamed and Di REN YI DENG, when they get rich, they are all the time
worried that other people will take advantage of them and take away their
wealth! AND many will even become ZHI GAO QI YANG and looking down on the people who have no money and even QI FU those who have no money and no power ( I do not think it is necessary to give examples )! I wonder when Chinese can realize that Chinese themselves are the one kind of people in the world who has the most predudices against tons of things!!Just one simple little example: often hear Chinese call the earlier immigrants Foreigners! Maybe it is JUST a habit, but it is so stupidly funny.
To summarize: We know why we are here. I know why I am here. I am here not for money. Because I know many Chinese believe that YOU QIAN NENG SHI GUI DUI MO ( if you believe it, it will work in the way you believed for sure ). But I do not believe this should be in my life! So I have Chosen a place, a country where my belief can meet with many others'( at least I HAVE the RIGHT to choose! ) and a country in which I see kindness and support and true happiness & joie for LIFE ITSELF!
Beautiful Life ( SHENG MIN )itself for us and our kids, isn't it a course to merge for?
Sence if justice, isn't it a course for us to merge for?
Learning to enjoy life and laugh and be happy, isn't it a course for us to merge for?
If these rich aquiantance fo yours have no interest in doing do, then they are just equals to dead people.
Our bodies are just bodies, it is the spirits who make us alive.
Money are just money, it is meaningful and useful when we use them for things good!
Sorry, too long. Let's call it a day!
Thank you for your patience. Remember, I am not criticizing anybody. Sincerely hope that everyone will do better in this better environment ( we want to change, we can change. That is why I can not get it when people compalined about China when they were in China, and complain about Canada when they are here. I just don't think it is smart to do that). If I have said anything that doesn't suit you or some readers, please don't mind. I don't mean anything bad about you or anybody!
Have a nice day!
我在温哥华时,承蒙亲戚的照顾,接触的移民基本上都是投资移民,除了大陆的,还有港台的,既有国内知名企业的老总,也有台湾来的立法委员.在和这些人接触 的过程中,我没有看到他们有融入本地社会的这种渴望.虽然他们绝对的衣食无忧,家大业大,但是他们的生活圈子其实很小,还是华人的圈子,认识新朋友最多也 就是去去教会而已...每次有华人社团捐款,他们会慷慨解囊,但是他们自己很少主动去参与或者组织这样那样的社团活动.对于这样的一群人来说,他们喜欢加 拿大的宁静,安定,而且加拿大在法律制度上很健全,也给这些人以保障,所以他们没有兴趣去融入当地的社会... |
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