xiaodoudou

To Hangzhou62:
  
The Big Common Sense tells us that adults taking advantage of the benefit for children and sharing ticket is NOT right as our social behaviour and I believe it is not legal according to the law as WU808 has given information. But those who do it, should keep it within their families which is ACCEPTABLE(by the way, I have no families who are doing that). If it is between friends, neigbours, co-workers, then it has crossed the LINE and it will be taken as fraud. The law and the system have to be supported by every one of us, otherwise the society will colapse. Fortunately, the absolute majority is not doing that.

Quote:

"On the other hand, people should be thoughtful to those less fortunate. Try to be more constructive and helpful. Those who think sharing ticket in a family does not morally stand higher than others."Quote.

To use student's pass as an adult, or sharing pass among friends all the time HAS NOTHING TO DO with being:" thoughtful to those less fortunate". As I said, it is not a question of money! It is REALLY a question of respect: respect ourselves, others and the system! Here I do think that because of the past living experience in CHINA, ( I truely regret in saying that ) quite some Chinese (don't know other Chinese from other places) don't know the word: RESPECT. Because in China, nobody respects nobody, people tend to "respect" mostly or only their family members, friends, superiors in their jobs, etc. and they don't respect the system neither ( let's not talk about the system in China, if so, it is going to be too long).

I can not do nothing for now for the Chinese in China, but I hope I can do something for the Chinese here(those who are willing to change) by exchanging opinions. I want to help, NOT want to stand higher. If I can help, I WILL stand on the bottom to support them. You have misunderstood me unfortunately!

Little story about feeling Superior( stand higher):

Years ago, I had a Chinese girl in my class. One day, she told me that she was leaving for China once she got her permanent resident card. I asked why, she said: "I can not stand here because I do not feel superior here". To tell you the truth, I have been feeling very sad for her. I am not rich, I am not poor, I came to Canada NOT to be superior or stand HIGHER than others. I come to Canada to GROW, to DEVELOP, to UNDERSTAND better about myself, China, Chinese and other countries and people who are different from us and I come here to become a wise and confident person and a fountain of love so that one day, I can stand firm, will be full of commom senses and have the power to make the right choices and decisions in my life.

I truely hope that Chinese should stop fighting for anything ridiculous like to be right, to be superior or to stand higher. I know that If I want truely to help and love, I have NO CHOICE, but on the BOTTOM.

Thank you Hangzhou62 for your comments!

圆明园

Post by xiaodoudou

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I am not rich, I am not poor, I came to Canada NOT to be superior or stand HIGHER than others. I come to Canada to GROW, to DEVELOP, to UNDERSTAND better about myself,
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well said.

laotu

:frown:我们中国人历来都有艰苦朴素,勤俭节约的美德.记的有一位同胞说过这样一句经典名言:致富的道路无非就是两条---开源和节流,在加国,开源是很不容易的,那么就只有想方设法去截流了.
   成人使用学生月票当然不对,但我想楼主所说的"一半"这个比例实在不可信,让同胞们看了怎能不难过?不知道你是如何得到着个统计数字的?你应该不是"三分统计,七分估计''吧?
   省下来的,就好比是挣的.其实,我的几个同学虽然对自己很吝啬,但是对朋友还不错.该花的钱还是舍的花.所以,他们/她们租用月票,我能理解.这也是一个 无形的供需市场.只是STM没有赚到这一笔,租金落入了个人的口袋.干脆就全当是这些年买月票,STM给大家的小小补贴费吧.

st-d

成人使用学生票: 无耻.

yhyh

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理解 jesuisnew 的感受。支持一把。

那位自我感觉举世皆浊，唯他独清的 bzwbd 同学 -- 一个脑子没有进水， 却把吃进去的水甚至奶消化成键盘下的秽物的高人。你太有才了吧。

bon a rien

I came from China too, but I really did see lots messages to borrow or rent the metro pass in Sinoquebec web, we are lucky, because quebecois wont visit this webside, if not, they will be very surprised by our chinese, " les yeux brides" called by Andre Boisclair. I understand some poeple just wants to save some money, but this is bad example of some chinese only, we better don't do that pretty stupid thing.