It is a very good topic. As a Chinese, we have our way to do things. It is seemed normal that you pick the vege you buy since you paied for them. In China, who does not pick their food when they go shopping. it is all depend on the situation. Here there is not a lot of people to pick the vege upsidedown to find the best of all. Here, in general ( I am not talking about indevidual case) , the culture setting is different. We are not talking about which one is better or worse. Just we are here. It is for our own good not to offand others and respect their settings ( or rules). This way every body is happy. After all we are the new comers. Do not just focus on the little sport. We are here and we want to be accepted ( no offense). Too bad I can not type Chinese. Hopefully it will make sense.
Find out what is better way of doing things and do it. This sound easy. You have to evaluate the thing you are doing. Then it is the value you have determinds how you do them.
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记得刚来的时候,晚上在杂货店打工,因为家里离地铁站有一段距离,骑辆破自行车,锁在靠近地铁旁的栏杆上,我的锁头也是防君子不防小人那种。等到我打工回来,发现自行车不见了,竟然在锁车的地方发现一张纸条,上面写着单车已骑走,我真的很无语,看来移民的同胞里,还有这样的工种,长见识。当时,我郁闷了很长一段时间,鬼子偷了也就算了,没想到竟然用中文留个条,兔子不吃窝边草,这种人,看来在国内太屈才了。后来,时间呆长了,见到的事多了,被同胞骗了几次,心理也就平静了,国内和国外差不多,国内会发生的,在国外中国人中也会出现。